Post Oak Oak Parents Association (POPA)

The Post Oak School depends on the support and talents of the parent body to accomplish its many tasks.  When you donate your time, talent, and energy to assist The Post Oak School, you make a valuable contribution to the children.  You also get the opportunity to connect with other parents and staff. 

Parent volunteer activities are coordinated through POPA.  Working together is an important way to build community spirit.  In addition, your efforts will help The Post Oak School to keep its tuition as low as possible.  There are a variety of ways you can contribute to The Post Oak School during the year.  A few suggestions are listed below:

  • Assist staff and students with field trips, special events, and plays
  • Work in the library
  • Work on fund raising projects; serve as a phone caller for Annual Giving
  • Participate in projects such as cleaning, painting, landscaping, or construction work.
  • Introduce elements of your cultural heritage to your child's class. Contact the teacher regarding what might be done. 
  • Serve as a class parent to provide direct support to the classroom teacher.

If you want to be more involved, contact the POPA Co-Presidents, your classroom parent, or teacher for information.

POPA Co-Presidents
Marcy Margolis
Margaret Funderberg



Parent Education Committee

From the Committee September 13, 2002

 
Freedom and Responsibility
By Phyllis Pottish-Lewis

Dr. Montessori did not believe, as was the case in her day, that education was for the purpose of filling the child with a prescribed and limited subject matter where abstract subjects were taught and facts were memorized. As she stated, Education should no longer be mostly imparting of knowledge, but must take a new path, seeking the release of human potentialities."

It was her belief that the task of education and the educator was to stimulate life and then leave it free to develop or unfold. This is a goal that would aid the total development of the human personality. That goal bespoke the necessity of trying to train or educate those elements inherent within the human being which lay only in potential at birth, but which could be nurtured and developed in a systematic and scientific way

One of those essential human elements in potential is "independence," without which an individual can riot function freely or autonomously. Dr Montessori believed that, "Any pedagogical action, if it is to be efficacious in the training of little children, must tend to help the children to advance upon this road of independence.

She had observed and noted that at birth the tiny child, with every movement of his muscles, with every cry emitted from his lips, was on this path to independence.  In fact, is this not what the small child's plea to Maria Montessori meant when he sad, "Help me to help myself?"  This child did not stop with just, "Help me", but continued an to add, "to help myself."  It was the addition of the last three words that gave the entire sentence meaning.  The child's petition was to help him to become independent, to act alone.  Since being an independent functioning human being is the direction that human development takes, it is only reasonable to assume that to be of real value education must assist: in this development.  It must continue to aid the child in his attempts to become independent at every level of his development.  Dr. Montessori realized that the modes of education of her time as they were functioning, would not and could not possibly develop such important facets of the individual as independence and other characteristics in potential. In fact, their very approach hindered the cultivation of these qualities.  Children were confined to their desks and seats, which restricted their movement, and thus the development of control over their movement.  They were allowed only to speak when spoken to, which limited severely their opportunities to learn to speak, and more importantly, impaired their abilities to express their ideas and opinions cogently. They were taught only the limited prescribed subject matter that was considered at the time important to impart. This made them dependent on their teacher for the direction their learning would take, and at the same time stunted the nurturing and development of their natural curiosity, as well as the pursuit of any topics that sparked genuine interest in the children.

As Montessori reasoned out that which had been revealed to her by the child, she concluded that in order for children to develop independence in any realm, or develop any other human potential for that matter, they must be given the freedom to act.  It is through activity that the child can develop himself.  The child must be free to move; he must be free to talk; he must be free to pursue his own interests and curiosities as they emerge.  She says, "Let us leave the life free to develop within the limits of the good, and let us observe this inner life developing.  This is the whole of our mission."

This idea of freedom is, however, a hard concept for some people to understand.  Those who love attempted it without firmly grasping all of the concepts inherent within it have promoted a climate of permissiveness which is seen in both homes and schools today.  Bid it was never Dr. Montessori's intent to offer children freedom without the limits or checks that would provide a balance for that freedom.  She believed that all freedoms given, given so the children can make their own 
spontaneous natural development, must also be accompanied by responsibilities.  In fact, by asking the child to be responsible to the freedoms given, he is provided an opportunity to develop his ability to be responsible.

To ask for responsibility for the freedom given is not an unreasonable thing to do, but in fact, a necessity.  The philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre says, " ... it [responsibility] is simply the logical requirement of the consequences of our freedom.”

If that requirement is not there then the freedom will become license, and chaos and confusion will ensue.

But Dr. Montessori was a scientist and a practitioner, and realized empirically that these two great concepts, freedom and responsibility, in order to be trained systematically, must be allowed to develop methodically and carefully in a controlled environment.  It is for this reason that she spoke of liberty within a prepared environment  Neither of these ideas could be introduced within a vacuum.  That prepared environment is both the home and the classroom, and since the adult is a part of that prepared environment, she must recognize not only the importance of providing freedom, but also know how to offer that freedom while asking for the balance of responsibility.  Freedom can be given to the child gradually, and then as he shows an ability to handle the small dose given, more responsibility can be offered, building up over time the ability to be fully responsible. This is part of the formula that Dr. Montessori offered for the development of the human personality.

But it is not enough for the adult merely to recognize that freedom is given gradually, she also must recognize what factors operate when a child acts on the freedom that he is given.  When a child is left free he is faced with having to make a choice.  He must choose one way or the other.  He can choose for the good, or he can choose for the bad.  If he chooses the bad, then in the final analysis, he is choosing "evil".  This is a compelling reason to make sure that we help develop in the child a real understanding of responsibility and all it encompasses and entails.  When a child makes a choice, he must reason out for himself what his 
responsibilities are and what the consequences will be, and then he will be free to act.  Therefore, when freedoms are offered the child, choices need to be made.  This results in other elements coming into play in order to make the final determination or decision. As E.M. Standing mentions, " ... for true liberty of choice is bound up with the power to think and reason - every act of choice being necessarily preceded by an act of the intellect, i.e., a judgment!”

These elements of reason, will and judgment, all can be developed and refined by having opportunities in which they can be practiced and exercised within the prepared environment.  Dr. Montessori says, "The human personality must be given a chance to realize every one of its capabilities."

We can see that through the offering of freedom within the prepared environment, other capabilities have the opportunity to be developed and realized gradually, by degree, in a systematic way.

Phyllis Pottish-Lewis holds a Bachelor's Degree in Zoology from UCLA and is licensed as a California Medical Technologist.  She received her AMI primary diploma from the Montessori Institute of Los Angeles in 1971 and her elementary diploma from the Washington Montessori Institute in 1977.  Her teaching experience includes 17 years at the elementary level as well as 5 years at the primary level.  She also has had two years of experience administering a Montessori school.  Ms. Pottish-Lewis is an AMI lecturer and consultant, and the past chair of AMI/EAA.  She is presently teaching a class of 9-12 year olds at the Marin Montessori School in California.




Infant Parent Program

  WHAT: The Post Oak School Infant/Parent Program
  WHO: For children 2 months of age until the advent of walking —– and their parents or caregivers
  WHEN:  
  Tuesday and Thursday 1:30 - 3:00

  Session II: January 22 - March 7
  Session III: April 2 -  May 16

  WHERE:  
  The Post Oak School
  4600 Bissonnet
  Bellaire, TX 77401

 In Susan Tracy's Infant Community Room
 

  WHY:  
  • Learn how to raise independent and joyful children.
  • Learn how to aid your child's language development, movement, weaning, self-care, eye-hand coordination, eating, toileting and independence.
  • Learn how to prepare an ideal home environment for your child.
  • Learn about the Montessori approach and about the educational program at the Post Oak School.
  • Receive priority in admission to the Infant Community classes (age 14 months - 3 years)of the Post Oak School.
  COSTS: $125 for each 7-week session
Click here for short application.
Call (713) 661-6688 for additional information